PARANOIDS!!!
One of the things that drives me absolutely nuts is the paranoia of my fellow pervs. They are absolutely terrified of everything and everyone and it would be funny if it were not so utterly pervasive. After all, there are few things funnier than the sight of a big, brave dom running for dear life at the sight of a flashbulb going off leaving a trail of piddle behind him!
Ok, scene people are chicken shits. We know that and I have always found it difficult to hide my contempt for most of them. (And in the case of the Olde Guarde I don't hide it at all, they deserve all the contempt they can get.) What is most annoying is that by expressing their damnable cowardice in the many ways they do, they only invite the very problems they seek to avoid. They portray such an image of weakness that they are seen as fair game for anyone who dislikes them or their way of having fun. And if you explain to them that they can fight back and win, they pee in their pants at the mere thought of it. But the absolute worst part about them is that they expect the rest of US to share their paranoia, to be as afraid as they are. And that makes me want to puke all over them.
For example, they will make up the most outlandish scene names and think that they are anonymous because they hide behind them, then they go to an event, not thinking that the moment they reserve their room in the hotel, there is a record of their real name, address, phone number, etc.. And EVERYONE who works at the hotel knows why they are there! But perish the thought that they should use their real names. Mommy and daddy may find out!
Think about it. If your family finds out you are into BDSM, what the hell are they going to do about it? If the parental units object, just remind them that you will be the one picking their nursing home, that will shut them up. Give them a simple choice, accept you as you are or go to hell. They’ll come around.
There is no opponent out there that does not have some vulnerability somewhere. Find that vulnerability and exploit it. And ignore the gutless wonders and paranoids. If they are afraid to come to something lest mommy find out, let them hide in the basement where they belong.
One of the things that drives me absolutely nuts is the paranoia of my fellow pervs. They are absolutely terrified of everything and everyone and it would be funny if it were not so utterly pervasive. After all, there are few things funnier than the sight of a big, brave dom running for dear life at the sight of a flashbulb going off leaving a trail of piddle behind him!
Ok, scene people are chicken shits. We know that and I have always found it difficult to hide my contempt for most of them. (And in the case of the Olde Guarde I don't hide it at all, they deserve all the contempt they can get.) What is most annoying is that by expressing their damnable cowardice in the many ways they do, they only invite the very problems they seek to avoid. They portray such an image of weakness that they are seen as fair game for anyone who dislikes them or their way of having fun. And if you explain to them that they can fight back and win, they pee in their pants at the mere thought of it. But the absolute worst part about them is that they expect the rest of US to share their paranoia, to be as afraid as they are. And that makes me want to puke all over them.
For example, they will make up the most outlandish scene names and think that they are anonymous because they hide behind them, then they go to an event, not thinking that the moment they reserve their room in the hotel, there is a record of their real name, address, phone number, etc.. And EVERYONE who works at the hotel knows why they are there! But perish the thought that they should use their real names. Mommy and daddy may find out!
Think about it. If your family finds out you are into BDSM, what the hell are they going to do about it? If the parental units object, just remind them that you will be the one picking their nursing home, that will shut them up. Give them a simple choice, accept you as you are or go to hell. They’ll come around.
There is no opponent out there that does not have some vulnerability somewhere. Find that vulnerability and exploit it. And ignore the gutless wonders and paranoids. If they are afraid to come to something lest mommy find out, let them hide in the basement where they belong.