Gems of Wisdom
When you first enter the BDSM scene, believe nothing that you read, nothing that you hear and very little that you see.
Sit with your back to the wall.
Assume that everyone wants to get into your pants, be they male or female, until you know otherwise.
If anyone claims to know what they are talking about, assume that they don't. This especially applies to authors and website folks.
Never forget that you are among control freaks who have nothing better to do than try to control you. It is your task not to let them do that.
The more leather a person is wearing, the less skill he is likely to have on the playfloor. (The Inverse Leather Rule: The ability of a player is in inverse square proportion to the amount of leather he is wearing.)
Never, ever take anything someone wearing a biker cap says seriously. If they are stupid enough to look that silly, they are too stupid to have anything to say that is worth listening to.
Anyone who uses the word, "respect" does not deserve it and this applies not only in BDSM but in every other area of life.
The more pins on the vest, the fewer cells in the brain.
The moment anyone uses the word "honor," grab your partner tight and your wallet tighter because he is most certainly after one or the other, if not both.
A sub without a collar is fair game.
A sub with a collar is fair game.
And never forget, Eurasia has always been at war with Oceania. Anyone who has been in the scene for any length of time knows what that means.
When you first enter the BDSM scene, believe nothing that you read, nothing that you hear and very little that you see.
Sit with your back to the wall.
Assume that everyone wants to get into your pants, be they male or female, until you know otherwise.
If anyone claims to know what they are talking about, assume that they don't. This especially applies to authors and website folks.
Never forget that you are among control freaks who have nothing better to do than try to control you. It is your task not to let them do that.
The more leather a person is wearing, the less skill he is likely to have on the playfloor. (The Inverse Leather Rule: The ability of a player is in inverse square proportion to the amount of leather he is wearing.)
Never, ever take anything someone wearing a biker cap says seriously. If they are stupid enough to look that silly, they are too stupid to have anything to say that is worth listening to.
Anyone who uses the word, "respect" does not deserve it and this applies not only in BDSM but in every other area of life.
The more pins on the vest, the fewer cells in the brain.
The moment anyone uses the word "honor," grab your partner tight and your wallet tighter because he is most certainly after one or the other, if not both.
A sub without a collar is fair game.
A sub with a collar is fair game.
And never forget, Eurasia has always been at war with Oceania. Anyone who has been in the scene for any length of time knows what that means.